This list is an ongoing collaborative effort. I have been adding these example binding/limiting beliefs from the clients and community from The Bindless Mindset Facebook Group. Be sure to check it out if you have not done so yet. It is a growing community of high achieving professionals that are ready to unravel their limitations and live with a Bindless Mind. If you want to dive into overcoming the binding beliefs you already are aware of jump to the overcoming limiting beliefs page. If you have any binding/limiting beliefs you want added to the list either drop them in the comments, or post them in the group on Facebook.
Binding/Limiting Beliefs about Money and Abundance
- Money is the root of all evil.
- A penny saved is a penny earned.
- You get what you deserve.
- Money burns a whole in my pocket.
- Found money is free money.
- I never win anything.
- Nothing is ever free.
- I will never get my big break.
- There is never enough.
- Everyone else gets all the good stuff.
- My spouse is after my money.
- The government is after my money.
- There is never enough to go around.
- I have to protect what I have because there just isn’t enough.
- I will never make enough money to support my family.
- Money does not come easily.
- Earning money requires working really hard.
- Money is the root of all evil
- Money does not grow on trees
- You cannot trust others with money.
- Taxes are evil.
- I do not know how to manage money.
- I am bad with money.
- Money is made to be spent!
- We/I will never be rich.
- Rich people are bad people.
- Rich people are not happy.
- Money turns people rotten.
- You cannot trust someone who has a lot of money.
- Money does not matter that much to me. I do not need it!
- As soon as I make it, I have to spend it!
- Money is always on its way out the door.
- The rich get richer, and the poor get poorer.
- Making lots of money requires sacrificing who you are.
- I am not worthy of being happy.
- I am not worthy of being rich.
- Why does this always happen to me?
- This is too much for me. I just cannot do it.
- The world is cruel and not nice.
- I can never be trusted when things are going well.
- To earn money, I have to work extremely hard.
- I could earn more money if I had a better education,
Limiting & Binding Beliefs about Relationships
- I will never find love.
- You cannot change who you are.
- I am damaged goods.
- I always pick losers.
- No one likes a squeaky wheel.
- I always get hurt (or dumped or betrayed).
- All the good ones are taken.
- No one wants me.
- You cannot trust anybody in a relationship.
- I am useless on my own.
- Why do not I know how to make it work?
- I need someone in my life at all times.
- My relationships just never work out.
- I need someone to take care of me.
- Putting yourself out there only results in getting hurt.
- Why am I so bad at love/relationships?
- I need to be someone else other than myself for others to like me.
- There just is not somebody out there for me.
- You get what you deserve.
- I am not enough on my own.
- I need somebody else in my life to make me feel useful.
- My family is always trying to keep me down.
- Doing something besides what my family wants is betraying them.
- I cannot do what my family does not want me to do.
- I just have to put up with what I do not like.
- We are all just chips off the old block.
- Like father, like son.
- Like Mother, like daughter.
- I have to do what my parents say or else (even as a grown-up).
- Others are going to hate me if I stand up for myself.
- I am not worthy of being loved.
- Others are just going to step on my toes, and I will deal with it.
- I need someone to complete me.
- Love never works out for me.
- I hate rejection.
Binding/Limiting Beliefs about Work
- I do not deserve to make money doing what I love.
- It is impossible to make money doing what you love.
- It is impossible to make money in the arts.
- I have to be a starving artist to maintain my integrity.
- I am not talented.
- No one appreciates me.
- I have no special strengths.
- I am not good enough.
- You get what you deserve.
- I am not worthy of that promotion.
- Everyone else gets the good jobs.
- I need more experience.
- Who would want to hire me?!
- I just do not know how to manage big projects.
- My opinion is not important.
- I crack under pressure.
- Whenever I manage things, it just turns out awful.
- I just do not have enough time on the job.
- It is not what you know, it is who you know.
- I never get opportunities to take on big projects.
- No one listens to me.
- I am invisible at work.
- I will never find the right job.
- All bosses are crappy.
- My supervisor is never going to listen to me.
- I cannot be trusted with responsibility.
- I am always overlooked.
- Working for the man is soul-crushing.
- You are not supposed to like what you do.
- I should know more than I do.
- Everyone expects too much of me.
- I got passed over for a promotion again – it is just not fair.
- My coworkers do not like me.
- I cannot promote without being a suck up.
Limiting Beliefs about Self-Worth
- I am a failure.
- I will never be good enough.
- You get what you deserve.
- I am always second rate.
- That is just my luck!!
- I do not deserve a better life.
- Life is not fair.
- Things just do not work out for me.
- It is all my parents’ fault.
- People look right through me.
- I cannot make things happen.
- These things always seem to happen.
- Who am I to have everything I have ever wanted?
Binding/Limiting Beliefs about Good Health
- My body just heals slowly.
- Getting sick is unavoidable.
- I cannot stop eating (____).
- I cannot stop drinking (____).
- You are what you eat.
- I am big boned.
- I do not deserve to be healthy.
- Everyone else in my family is overweight.
- I do not have time to eat healthy.
- Losing weight is the biggest battle of my life.
- I do not have time to be healthy.
- I am helpless to heal myself.
- You got to die of something.
- Diets do not work.
- I do not have money to eat healthy.
- I do not want to be a health nut.
- We are who we are.
- You cannot change who you are.
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